FAQ
Why did you write The Real Chad Move?
When I was 24, I was absolutely clueless, ignorant, and brainwashed about women and relationships. My parents were divorced. I had never been on a date.
I was fortunate enough to find a genius mentor who taught me how women "tick", and that wisdom has worked for me for 20 years.
Now in my 40's, I have a lot of mental energy due to quitting porn addiction. My first free site, The Flying Eagle Method, is finished, so I needed something new to work on. My new fun hobby is updating this site every few weeks, so the next generation of men can have the same gift of priceless knowledge.
Why is it free?
1) I don't need the money — knowing that enough is enough, one will always have enough. Cash is tight for young men these days, and leaving a legacy is infinitely more rewarding.
2) See Matthew 5:15.
Who should read The Real Chad Move?
Any young man with a logical brain and two working balls should read it! It's sad that many guys don't understand women or romantic relationships, because it's not that complicated — it's not rocket science.
Why is it in quiz format?
I like creative and concise digital formats, and it's a way to keep someone's attention. Note that after you finish the quiz once, it unlocks the single page "book" format.
Did you write the quiz code yourself?
Yes, and I've been a professional programmer for decades. If you see any bugs, please let me know.
What sources did you use?
1) Doc Love's book "The System". He interviewed *thousands* of women.
2) Hundreds of anonymous women's stories in an internet group.
3) Adam Lane Smith had a podcast where he talked about various topics, like vasopressin.
4) My own marriage of 18 years, which validates the above sources
How did Doc Love change your life?
I was trying to date for the first time in my life, and was struggling to get anywhere. The only woman I emailed on a dating site just ghosted me after I typed something really lame (super cringe). There's a reason my first question is about ghosting, because that's where I started — at the bottom.
I started reading Doc Love's free articles on askmen.com, and was hooked. I couldn't find anything wrong with what he was saying, so I bought his book "The System", even though $100 was a lot in 2004. (Best money I ever spent!)
After reading the book a few times, my brainwashing was removed, and dating was pretty easy and fun. A friend of mine who was my age also read the book and it changed his life too. We called it our "other bible". I have a family today because of Doc.
The one thing Doc didn't talk about enough was sex, and I want to improve that in my book because I would have benefited from better information. Doc's book also has an odd structure, so I made this site more concise and approachable.